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JAMES "JIMMY" HALL
June 14, 1966 to May 9, 2007
By Katharine Blossom Lowrie
and Gwen Fannin
Adventure burned in his soul
This is a love story. About sharks, the sea,
a Bavarian girl named Stefanie-and a whole bunch of big tough
guys who broke down in tears after Jimmy Hall fell to his
death on May 9 when a base-jump off a 3,000 ft. sea cliff
in the Canadian Arctic went terribly wrong. He was 41. An
insatiable daredevil who was in between shoots for his debut
stint as host of Shark Week on the Discovery Channel, Jimmy
Hall died the way he lived-testing the limits of the universe.
Adventure burned in his soul, one friend said, ignited that "goofy,
fearless smile." A passionate environmentalist, Hall
worked to protect the aquatic depths and renovate the always-maligned
reputation of sharks. A celebrity in his adopted Hawaii where
he orchestrated popular dives for tourists via his Hawaii
Shark Encounters, he gained international fame when he videotaped
and swam with a 20 ft. Great White off the coast of Oahu
in 2005. Later, when telling Matt Lauer of the Today show
how it felt to reach out and touch the predator, Hall described
the experience as "humbling...one of the greatest gifts
of my whole life."
"It just takes my breath away"
But swimming with any shark was a privilege. "When
I jump in out there and see how clear it is, how blue the
water is, and all the sharks, " Hall told Dan Moore
of Outereef Productions, "it just takes my breath away."
"Fearless, absolutely fearless," Moore
later said of Hall. "I think perhaps he was born without
an adrenal gland."
The day before the tragedy, Hall called his girlfriend of
ten years, Stefanie Brendl. "Jimmy was talking a mile
a minute about how much fun they were having," Brendl
said from their home in Hawaii. "There was something
about a polar bear and awesome ice and unbelievable cold.
I hung up really, really happy for him because he was doing
exactly what he wanted to do with the people he wanted to
do it with."
"I'd rather blow up than rust"
Hall summed up his perilous lifestyle in
a 2004 interview on CNN by saying, "You're not going
to be lying on your deathbed going, 'Gee, I wish I'd worked
more.' I'd rather blow up than rust." In that sense,
base-jumping-a dangerous and controversial sport that involves
parachuting off mountain peaks, highrise buildings or bridges-perfectly
suited Jimmy Hall. It took eight hours by dogsled just to
get to the Sam Ford Fjord on the north coast of Baffin Island
in the Canadian Arctic. Then, on May 9, after several days
of successful leaps off the most spectacular rock walls on
the planet, Hall and two teammates planned a riskier, more
technical jump. Attired in skydiving "wingsuits" that
allow jumpers to fly horizontally while freefalling, the
trio intended to leap from the summit, glide through the
narrow confines of a nearby canyon and land in an open fjord.
Hall, his helmet equipped with a camera so he could videotape
his compatriots for a documentary, was the third jumper off
the cliff. Where the other two made it, Hall ended up too
low to fully deploy his parachute, slammed into the rocks
and slid 1,500 ft. down to the sea ice.
"I dove down and watched the ashes
drift deeper"
Ten days later, when it came to a "celebration" of
Hall's life, a devastated Stefanie Brendl made sure the tribute
included skydiving, swimming with sharks and the kind of "Grand
Entrance" Jimmy Hall was famous for. Following a moving,
private ceremony at Alii Beach Park in Haleiwa, a hundred
mourners set out to sea. Brendl and Hall's mother, Linda
Tatreau, his father, Stanley Hall, and his sister, Ann Hall,
watched from the bridge of the Kainani, Hall's 31-foot Radon
power boat, as 35 crafts streamed around them in a glorious
regatta. "I could almost hear Jimmy saying, 'This is
so awesome!'" Brendl said.
As the boats circled, a Cessna 182 swooped out of the blue
and Hall's best friend, Jake Kilfoyle, jumped out, Brendl
said, "smoke bombs drawing a trail behind him as he
carved down from the sky carrying Jimmy's ashes." With
thousands of plumeria petals raining down from the sky, Brendl
and Hall's family spread the ashes on the sea. Then, amidst
hoops and hollers, everyone began diving into the water. "For
me hitting the water was the best moment of the whole day," Brendl
said. "I dove down and watched the ashes drift deeper
and spread in the ocean. And for that moment everything seemed
perfect and right."
He wanted his ashes mixed with chum
A smaller group of family and friends traveled
three miles off shore to the Shark Encounter buoy to feed
the rest of Hall's ashes to the sharks. "Jimmy wanted
his ashes mixed into a bucket of chum," Brendl said. "We
had talked about it a lot. For most people this would be
a shocker. But if you knew Jimmy it is no surprise." There
were only a few small sharks in the water, she said, so most
swam with them. "I took off into the blue to be alone.
Barry the Barracuda (an old acquaintance) accompanied me
most of the time. But no sharks came my way. It was calm
and strange and very lonely."
Later everyone gathered in the field in front
of Hall and Brendl's home to watch slideshows and videos
of Hall's travels, his shark swims and his Baffin Island
trip. "Everyone had a Jimmy story," Brendl said.
For the small group that stayed until midnight, "I don't
apologize for starting a most awesome, messy, out of control
cake fight. It's amazing how a group of adults can revert
to a screaming bunch of mud-slinging kindergarteners in a
split second. Jimmy would have loved it."
"For Jimmy it was always full speed
ahead"
Born June 14, 1966 in San Diego, Hall grew
up in and around the sea, his love of all things aquatic
influenced by his mom, Linda Tatreau, a marine biology teacher,
and his dad, Stan Hall, operator of a kelp-harvesting company.
His daredevil nature first surfaced at 14 months, when he
executed his first "jump" off the back of a couch
and broke his foot, his mother said. Not long after, Tatreau
walked into the room to see her son preparing to leap off
a teetering ironing board. As the board collapsed, the toddler
jumped for the curtains. "The fabric was sun damaged
and ripped slowly, delivering him gently to the floor," Tatreau
said. By age 4, given a small surfboard by his dad, "Jimmy
was soon shredding the waves," his mother said. Whatever
his activity-skateboarding, horses, surfing, windsurfing,
spear fishing, scuba diving-he did it all with the same intensity. "For
Jimmy it was always full speed ahead."
Hall spent much of his adult life on the
North Shore of Oahu or sailing the high seas. Working on
tugboats to finance trips all over the world, he climbed
active volcanoes in Bali and Peru, paraglided from a 22-thousand
foot summit in the Andes and-in 1994-set sail from Hawaii
in his 30-foot Ericson sloop, traveling for the next six
years and 14,000 miles through the Pacific and Southeast
Asia.
They used to joke about Jimmy's "nine
live"
Hall met Stefanie Brendl in Guam in 1997,
during his attempt to sail around the world. From the outset,
Brendl said, "He was like the grand spark and motivator
to everybody." Not only was he "incredibly fun
to be with," she said, "but we shared the same
goals: to travel and experience the world to the fullest.
All of us used to joke about Jimmy's nine lives and the fact
that he would use them up. But deep down, all of us thought
he would be around forever."
Base-jumping-first made popular by the opening
sequences of the 1976 James Bond film The Spy Who Loved Me-was
Hall's newest challenge, said his agent, Micah Johnson, who
tried to dissuade his client from going to Canada. "I
told him it was too dangerous. He was just starting a new
career with Discovery, and I wanted him to wait." But
Jimmy wasn't the type of person you could discourage, Johnson
said. Hall, who is featured along with Stefanie Brendl in
the "Perfect Predators" segment of the current
Shark Week series, was scheduled to leave for the Great Barrier
Reef off Australia to swim with Great Whites the week after
his Canadian trip.
Jimmy Hall is survived by his girlfriend,
Stefanie Brendl of Hawaii; his mother, Linda Tatreau and
father, Stanley Hall, of Guam; his sister, Ann Hall, grandmother,
Beulah "Slugger" Tatreau, and his uncle, aunts
and cousins, many of whom reside in San Diego.
ELIZABETH "BETSY" BURKE
SCHOTTKE
September 7, 1916 to August 22, 1993
By Katharine Blossom Lowrie
The Art Spirit
Elizabeth "Betsy" Burke Schottke,
a popular Rancho Santa Fe artist who struggled to preserve her ability to paint despite the onset of Alzheimer's, died on August 22, 1993. She was 75. To the end, said all three
of her daughters, Betsy reflected the grace and discipline
described in one of her favorite books, The Art Spirit by
Robert Henri, a book about painting, yes, but also about
striving for harmony, elegance and simplicity in life. "Greatness," Henri
wrote, "can only come by the art spirit entering into
the very life of the people. It is to make every life productive
of light-a spiritual influence." In one of only two
self-portraits, Betsy stands at her easel, readers low on
her nose, brush poised, the determination to translate the
unseen into art alive in her startling blue eyes.
Lady Godiva figures in her family tree
Born September 7, 1916 in Baltimore, Maryland
to Katharine Morrow and William "Billy" Burke,
Betsy descended from Ohio River Valley pioneers, a Supreme
Court Justice, and John Howard, an officer who fought alongside
George Washington in the American Revolution and later became
the first governor of the state of Maryland. Writer Anne
Morrow Lindbergh, wife of aviator Charles Lindbergh, figures
in her family tree, as does the infamous Lady Godiva who
rode naked through the city of Coventry (now the UK) in 1057
to protest a tax burden levied on the poor by her husband,
the Earl of Mercia.
History, like art and literature, drew Betsy's
aesthetic nature. She loved to read and treasured family
heirlooms, especially antiques that had belonged to her mother.
Betsy was only three when Katharine fell victim to the great
flu epidemic in 1919. Too devastated by his wife's death
to care for their little girl, Billy sent her to Colorado
to live with Katharine's sister, Blossom, and her geologist
husband, Harold Lowrie. The Lowries, childless, were ecstatic.
When Billy Burke remarried, he reclaimed his daughter, but
immediately shipped her off to Edgewood, a Connecticut boarding
school. It seems Betsy's new stepmother resented the adorable
child, who so reminded her father of his late wife.
Many compared her to a young Ingrid Bergman
Betsy remained at Edgewood from the 2nd through
the 12th grade. Terrific at basketball, she wrote poetry,
read until all hours and gave the valedictorian address for
her senior class, an event her father and stepmother declined
to attend at the last moment. Following graduation, aiming
for a career in commercial art, she headed to New York, where
her exceptional looks and natural poise (many compared her
to a young Ingrid Bergman) earned her a job as a runway model
at Saks Fifth Avenue.
"I was raised to play Bridge and golf"
Marriage and children interrupted Betsy's
professional goals, hardly unusual for the times, although
two divorces left their mark. Upon her second divorce, according
to middle daughter, Patricia "Bonnie" Daybell,
she complained to a friend that she was ill equipped to support
three children. "I was raised to play Bridge and golf," Betsy
moaned. "That's all I know how to do." The highly
practical Virgo was not unemployed for long, however, and
quickly landed a job as a receptionist for $125 a month.
Later she sold perfume as a partner in Parfumes Fragonard
at the famous Farmer's Market in Los Angeles.
She never bought anything unless it was on
sale
Despite growing up minus a maternal role
model, Betsy excelled as a mom, her daughters said-although
not always in the traditional sense. "She did not sew,
bake cookies or host Girl Scout meetings," said oldest
daughter, Katharine Lowrie. "But, oh God, was she fun.
She was shrewd in her advice, profoundly wise and blessed
with a delicious sense of the absurd." According to
Bonnie, she was also darn frugal. "Mom never bought
anything unless it was on sale," Bonnie said. "Of
course, it always had to come from Saks or Neiman Marcus." Avoiding
discord was another trait, said youngest daughter, Julie
Larson. "Mom liked to keep the peace. She didn't want
anyone to argue."
Betsy did not return to serious painting
until after she married her third husband, Lorry Schottke,
a financial consultant and former Navy pilot who flew the
Berlin Airlift after WWII. Despite her late start, she earned
the admiration of her favorite teacher and mentor, the late
Sergei Bongart, an acclaimed expressionist painter. Betsy's
still lifes and portraits, although reflective of Bongart's
style, bear her own trademarks: frugal brush strokes and
glorious color. Many paintings feature her beloved heirlooms:
a Sterling coffee server, grandfather's clock, leather bound
volumes of Shakespeare, Robert Browning and Oscar Wilde. "She
so loved Aunt Blossom's Minton china soup tureen, we laid
her ashes to rest there," Katharine said, adding with
a grin. "Before we illegally buried her on the Rancho
Santa Fe golf course."
"We had to duck a lot"
A resident of Glendale and La Canada before
moving to Rancho Santa Fe in 1980, Betsy adored life in the
pristine Mediterranean village nestled high above the sea
in Northern San Diego County. The Schottkes bought a condo
just steps from the Rancho Santa Fe Golf Club and remodeled
the garage into an art studio. "Mom was in heaven," said
daughter Bonnie, who introduced her mother to "The Ranch",
as it is called. An excellent golfer, she continued to play
even after the Alzheimer's diagnosis. "She tended to
forget which way to hit the ball," one friend said with
a sad smile. "We had to duck a lot." As a tribute
to those who risked life and limb to look after their mother
on those perilous forays, her daughters presented the RSF
Women's Golf Association with one of Betsy's paintings-a
splashy oil of pink and yellow cabbage roses bubbling out
of a chalk-white vase. It hangs in the women's locker room.
Betsy Schottke is survived by her husband
of 42 years, Lorry; her three daughters, Katharine Blossom
Lowrie of West Hollywood, California; Patricia "Bonnie" O'Brien
Daybell of Gig Harbor, Washington; Julia Safford Larson of
Sedona, Arizona, and six grandchildren: Jamie, Jennifer,
Susan, Brian, Amber and Corey.

DOMINIC
ALFRED LEONE
November 7 or 11, 1915 to September 16, 2003
By Katharine Blossom Lowrie
A "Mississippi River card shark"
Dominic Alfred Leone, a larger than life
character who dressed like a high roller and went AWOL from
the army in 1942 to marry the woman he loved, died of respiratory
failure in Los Angeles on September 16, 2003. He was eighty-seven.
Four years after his passing, Dominic, or "Ace" as
everyone called him, still dominates the conversation in
a sprawling Italian family that occupies two coasts. Taking
credit for the nickname, Ace's nephew, Paul Picerni, said
his uncle always reminded him of a "Mississippi River
card shark." A "slick" dresser who identified
with George Raft and Frank Sinatra, Ace could have passed
for a Hollywood producer or the consigliore to the Gambino
Family, his nephew said.
Short in stature (only 5'5"), he was
huge in life and relished his Donnie Brasco image, said his
oldest daughter, Nola Leone, who, along with her sister Mindy
Kouirinis, cared for Ace during his last years, first in
New York and later at Nola's home in Los Angeles. Witty and
full of tall tales (he once tried to convince a very young
Nola that he had written the Star Spangled Banner), Ace loved
the ladies. "And they loved him," daughter Mindy
said. He also liked to leave things to the imagination: his
occupation, for example. Listing himself as a "fund
raiser," Ace spent many years servicing bazaars and
carnivals with his brother Mike. "Daddy had many talents
and wasn't afraid to sweat," Nola said. "But
he was always searching for that 'get rich quick' scheme." In
the meantime, he drove a cab, co-owned a bowling alley, tended
bar and did "God knows what else!"
He always insisted on cloth napkins
Enormous charm and plenty of street savvy
substituted for Ace's higher education, Nola said. He read
the newspaper every day, liked books about gangsters and
horse racing (his favorite sport) and enjoyed golf and baseball.
But his aristocratic tastes set him apart. Ace always insisted
on cloth napkins, Nola said, drank Dewar's White Label scotch
and-up until his heart attack in 1999-smoked Dunhill or Du
Maurier cigarettes. In his tailored suits, perfectly ironed
shirts, a pinky ring on his finger, he flashed expensive
watches and a solid gold chain necklace that bore an Italian
good luck charm in the shape of a horn.
Born to Armondo and Carmela Leone in Corona, New York on
November 7 or 11, 1915, Ace was the youngest of many children.
Tragically, his mother died when he was only 14 months old,
and his father passed away when he was a teenager. Because
all records and photos were lost in a fire, Ace remained
uncertain of his exact birth date. "Rather than select
one date," Mindy laughed, "he celebrated both!" Losing
his parents at such a young age, however, gave him a lot
to overcome, she said. "But he rarely talked of his
childhood and never complained." Following his father's
death, Ace lived for periods with his older sister, Lena
Picerni, her husband Charles and their five children (nephew
Paul among them). But he was eager to strike out on his own.
Drafted into the army at twenty-six, he soon went AWOL to
marry his beautiful, raven-haired girlfriend of ten years,
Michelina (Lee or Lena) Nola. Daughters Nola and Mindy arrived
thereafter. But Ace always considered his young sister-in-law,
Rose Nola, his "other daughter," Nola said.
In the 1950s, Ace's nephew Paul, an actor, tried to encourage
his uncle to move to Hollywood and become an agent. "With
his gift of gab and BS," daughter Nola said, "he
would have been a terrific agent." But Ace's wife Lee,
then the matriarch and oldest of eight children, didn't want
to leave her brothers and sisters behind in the East. The
move West didn't occur until 1999, when-while visiting Nola
in Los Angeles-Ace suffered a heart attack. Subsequent open-heart
surgery and his daughters' urging convinced him to relocate
to California. His beloved Lee had passed away 18 years earlier.
"We may not be rich, but we sure have
fun!"
Although Ace had only limited use of his
left leg due to a stroke in 1990, his declining health hardly
made a dent in his personality, family members said. His
trips to the racetrack and off-track-betting sites dwindled,
but nothing kept him from playing bocce ball once a week
at his nephew's home in Reseda. "He needed some assistance," Paul
said, "but he was a great point man and always brought
our favorite Italian cookies." Happy-go-lucky by nature,
Ace could get testy at times. "We didn't call him Crank
Sinatra for nothing," Mindy laughed. More often, she
said, her father's life could be summed up in one of his
favorite expressions: "We may not be rich, but we sure
have fun!"
Ace is survived by two daughters, Nola of Los Angeles and
Mindy of New York; his son-in-law, Bill Kouirinis, and too
many nieces and nephews and grand nieces and nephews to list.
In 2003, family and friends on two coasts jammed memorial
services honoring Ace: first at Our Lady of Grace in Encino,
California on September 19, and a week later at St. Andrew
Avelino Church (the same church where Ace and Lee were married)
in Flushing, New York. Both services were followed by raucous
gatherings at two of Ace's favorite watering holes: Barone's
(CA) and the Parkside (NY).
"Daddy always said that when his time came we should have a party and
buy everyone a drink," Nola said. "So we did." |